Where's the guide book?

The district nurses are fabulous, but they don't give you a handbook. Call us if you need anything, but how do I know when the right time is? As the hospice nurse said yesterday, "we would all like a crystal ball". If I had one I would know in advance that I needed their help with Mike's nausea or agitation. A handbook would tell me if there is a magic drug that would ease his itching. They are great, but things seem a bit open-ended if you understand what I am trying to say.

Soldiering on.