tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019358777276382043.post4933258362694275323..comments2019-05-31T11:26:25.629+01:00Comments on Lorna and Micky Our-loma: Time for a changeLorna A.http://www.blogger.com/profile/14476134649136494702noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019358777276382043.post-51180712619167736452017-03-22T23:24:09.813+00:002017-03-22T23:24:09.813+00:00I don't think you are "being negative &qu...I don't think you are "being negative ". You are just feeling emotions. Just emotions. Strong ones that are scary and frustrating. There is nothing wrong with with feeling that way. Birdiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03479872783727855901noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019358777276382043.post-5477859651131975442017-03-22T21:28:44.366+00:002017-03-22T21:28:44.366+00:00Thank you Birdie,I've put them back up. I will...Thank you Birdie,I've put them back up. I will continue to strive to be more balanced in my blogs,even if it means being negative sometimes. XLorna A.https://www.blogger.com/profile/14476134649136494702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019358777276382043.post-18138971210840811872017-03-22T18:18:09.401+00:002017-03-22T18:18:09.401+00:00My opinion, even though it wasn't asked for, i...My opinion, even though it wasn't asked for, is that you should keep the posts up. Because they are reality. When my mom had cancer we were expecting bravery and people rallying around to help. We were expecting the eulogy of fighting to the end and a great sense of humour. Why? Because that is what we are told. We are not told the ugly. Colostomy bags blowing up. Vomiting. Fear. Resentment. Exhaustion. We are told that your entire life does a 180 and gone are the vacations and the life you had planned. You even miss out on small things like birthday parties or just going for a drive. <br />It's like Facebook. We just post the positive. It isn't real and it's hurting us because we end up feeling like we are somehow defective. <br />Love to both of you as you go,through this brutal journey. Most days it isn't a positive one. xoBirdiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03479872783727855901noreply@blogger.com